Navigating Emotional Turmoil: Staying Balanced in a Turbulent World
Oct 15, 2023
In today's harried and interconnected world, staying informed about current events has become part of our daily lives. However, with the constant influx of negative news, it’s not uncommon to find ourselves feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or deeply upset.
Many people ask:
- How do you stay focused when you're upset at the state of the world?
- How do you talk to kids about global turmoil without overwhelming them?
The truth is, there’s no perfect way to process difficult news, but there are strategies to help manage emotions, maintain focus, and foster resilience—both for yourself and for the children in your life.
Coping with Emotional Turmoil in a Turbulent World
The world can feel like a chaotic place—war, natural disasters, social injustices, and political unrest constantly dominate headlines. While being informed is important, it’s just as critical to protect your emotional well-being.
The first step? Acknowledge your emotions.
You may already understand the importance of listening to others. However, it’s equally crucial to listen to yourself. Take time to recognize your emotional responses to global events. Is it anger, fear, sadness, or a combination of these?
Too often, we try to push these emotions away because they feel uncomfortable. But emotions don’t disappear just because we ignore them. Instead, they build up, leading to stress, anxiety, or even burnout.
Give Yourself Space to Process
Before engaging in conversations about difficult topics—whether with your partner, friends, or children—do the internal work first.
- Label what you're feeling ("I'm feeling really anxious about the news today.")
- Allow yourself to feel it—don’t judge yourself for being upset.
- Engage in self-care before discussing heavy topics. A short walk, deep breathing, or journaling can help release tension.
Recognizing and processing your emotions before talking to others can help you approach difficult conversations with a calmer, clearer mindset.
Balancing Informed Citizenship and Emotional Well-Being
We live in a time when information is available 24/7. While staying informed is crucial, it’s equally important to set boundaries around your media consumption.
Many people experience emotional exhaustion because they never unplug. Doomscrolling—endlessly consuming distressing news—can reinforce feelings of helplessness and despair.
How to Set Healthy Boundaries Around News Consumption
- Limit your exposure. Set specific times to check the news rather than consuming it all day.
- Choose reputable sources. Avoid sensationalized media that thrives on fear.
- Curate your social media. If certain accounts make you feel anxious or overwhelmed, mute or unfollow them.
- Balance distressing news with positive stories. Seek out stories of kindness, resilience, and progress. They exist, too.
Remember: Taking a break from the news isn’t ignoring reality—it’s protecting your mental and emotional health so you can engage with the world in a sustainable way.
Talking to Kids About Global Turmoil: Compassionate Conversations
Children are more aware than we often realize. Even if you limit their access to the news, they pick up on things. They overhear conversations, see social media posts, or sense when the adults in their lives are stressed.
That’s why it’s important to create a safe space for them to express their concerns, rather than leaving them to process difficult emotions alone.
How to Approach Tough Conversations with Kids
✔ Create a space for open dialogue. Let your child know that no topic is off-limits. If they have questions, encourage them to ask.
✔ Use age-appropriate language. You don’t need to give young children every detail about a crisis, but you can provide simple, honest explanations.
✔ Validate their emotions. If your child says, “I’m scared,” resist the urge to dismiss it with, “There’s nothing to worry about.” Instead, acknowledge their feelings: “I understand why you feel that way. Do you want to talk about it?”
✔ Model calmness. Kids take emotional cues from adults. If they see you panicking, they’ll absorb that energy. If they see you practicing emotional regulation, they’ll learn to do the same.
✔ Empower them with action. Feeling powerless is one of the hardest emotions to cope with. Even small actions—writing a letter of support, donating to a cause, or helping a neighbor—can give kids a sense of agency.
Fostering Hope and Resilience in Difficult Times
When the world feels overwhelming, choosing to see the good isn’t naïve—it’s necessary.
This doesn’t mean ignoring problems, but rather acknowledging that hardship and hope can coexist.
Ways to Build Resilience for Yourself and Your Family
Look for the helpers. As Mr. Rogers famously said, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” Point out individuals and communities making a difference.
Share stories of resilience. Talk about people who have faced adversity and overcome it. These stories remind both you and your children that difficult times don’t last forever.
Engage in gratitude. Even on hard days, there’s something to be grateful for. Keep a gratitude journal or share one “good thing” at the dinner table each night.
Prioritize connection. Reach out to friends, family, or a support network. Isolation makes emotional distress worse, while connection helps us process our emotions in a healthy way.
You Don't Have to Carry It Alone
If you’re feeling emotionally exhausted by the state of the world, you are not alone. Many people are struggling to navigate the weight of difficult news, overwhelming emotions, and hard conversations.
Sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is simply be heard.
That’s where HOLD’s confidential listening appointments come in.
✅ A safe, judgment-free space to express what’s on your heart
✅ Emotional support when the world feels overwhelming
✅ Practical tools for managing stress, staying grounded, and having meaningful conversations
If you need someone to truly listen—without offering quick fixes or empty reassurances—we’re here for you.
Book a confidential listening appointment today and take a step toward clarity, relief, and emotional balance.