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Explore Podcast ConversationsWhen we think of human needs, we tend to focus on survival: air, water, food—and maybe shelter. These are undeniably essential. But they aren’t the only needs people have.
To truly thrive—to feel alive and connected and whole—we also need emotional ...
There’s a kind of work that doesn’t show up on a to-do list—but still takes everything you’ve got.
It’s the thought work. The remembering. The planning. The anticipating.
It’s the “we’re low on toothpaste,” the “whose birthday is this weekend,” and t...
Few moments make people feel as unsure as standing beside someone who is recovering after surgery.
You want to help. You care deeply. But suddenly you’re wondering what to say, what to do, or whether you might accidentally make things harder instead...
Emotional dysregulation. It’s a big phrase with a very real impact—especially in parenting, relationships, and even leadership.
When someone is dysregulated, it means their brain has flipped into a stress response. They’re not thinking clearly, not ...
I grew up in a small town in Iowa.
One of those places where everyone knew each other. Doors were left unlocked, and your business was never truly just your own. There were a lot of good things about it—community, connection, traditions that ran dee...
When life starts feeling overwhelming, many of us find ourselves at a crossroads, questioning if we need extra help.
Many of us think about therapy for other people first—our children, our partners, or our friends. It can be much harder to imagine t...